Monday, May 15, 2023

Message to Nurses Globally for the International Day for Nurses and Midwives

Dear nurses and midwives across the globe,

I salute you and applaud you during this special month in which you, we, are acknowledged and celebrated.

To continue to move forward and upward we must pause to acknowledge our history and the leaders who carried us on their shoulders. Among them are Rufaida Al Islamiyah, Florence Nightingale, as well as the more contemporary ones around the world who amplified our discipline’s mission and brought us to this point where the whole world is thinking and celebrating nurses. They knew exactly what our mission was: alleviating suffering of patients and their families, uncovering illness experiences, caring, comforting and facilitating transitions, promoting self-care, enhancing wellness, managing and coordinating care, as well as empowering themselves (and us) to function up to their, and our, fullest capacities.

But it took years and perhaps decades for our healthcare colleagues, for organizations and for populations to recognize and acknowledge our centrality in healthcare teams and systems, and to value our roles in quality care, and to position and compensate us appropriately and equally.

As we look forward, we must continue to have a strong collective voice, to advance nursing knowledge through careful research and theory building and to develop the most effective models of care that ensure the quality care that we, as professionals, strive for. We must also continue to insist on providing the highest levels of education that prepares graduates who are innovative, collaborative leaders and policy makers.

Sixty years ago, I made one of the best decisions of my life, to become a nurse. Every year since has added to my pride and passion for nursing and midwifery. Over the years I traveled to different parts of the world and I met and saw nurses in action, which added to my extreme pride for our discipline and how it impacts populations’ health globally.

Happy Nurses and Midwives Day, every day of the year!


Afaf Ibrahim Meleis, PhD, FAAN, LL
Professor of Nursing and Sociology
Dean Emerita, School of Nursing, University of Pennsylvania


Friday, July 23, 2021

A Reluctant Leader: Reflections on My Leadership Roles

The question about what career accomplishments I am most proud of makes me reflect on the answer I readily give. My answer has always been that I am most proud of my mentees, who reside in different parts of the world, and their amazing leadership. However, a recent question posed by my Philadelphia Transitions group was more targeted toward leadership journeys. My immediate answer to this question is that my journey as a reluctant leader, who held many leadership roles, such as deanships, chairmanships and directorships, stems from accepting serendipitous opportunities and integrating those opportunities with the needs of my family at different life stages. While I did plan my educational trajectory and academic path, in contrast, I did not chart nor design my leadership path.

While deeply rethinking what I am most proud of, I realized I am most proud of finding my own authentic voice and using it to make a difference in the lives of women and nurses. Two articles I published earlier in my career reflect what I really wanted to achieve without deliberately articulating specific goals. The titles of these articles were “A passion for making a difference: ReVisions for empowerment” and “Does nursing intervention make a difference? A test of the ROSP,” which I wrote to convince legislators of the significant role nurses play based on a clinical trial for nursing interventions.

Reflecting on what helped develop my voice, I uncovered three main strategies:

  1. First, I developed my voice through listening. As a child, I listened to women who came to my mother’s midwifery office. Then I listened to my childhood friend, Saidia, the daughter of the doorman who suddenly disappeared when she was 12-years-old. I found out her family sent her back to their village to marry her cousin. Girl/child marriages are still practiced in many countries. I also listened to women in Colombia, Brazil, Sweden, Egypt, and many more countries, where I continued to hear similar messages. Women felt oppressed, violated, burdened, undervalued, under-supported and definitely under compensated. Then I listened to nurses, and I heard about their sense of devaluation, the lack of equitable compensation and disciplinary oppression by physicians and administrators. I listened to caregivers and heard about their uncertainty, under-supported transitions when becoming caregivers, as well as the paradox of being burdened and transformed by caregiving. These messages profoundly affected me and shaped my goals, my research and my academic and leadership roles. I pondered what could be done?

  2. The second strategy involved building connections, investing in partnerships, nurturing relationships globally, and then leveraging them to facilitate and support others. My colleagues and I developed global conferences that empowered women and forged connections. I continue leveraging my global connections in my current roles as a board member and a trustee. While mentoring deans and faculty in nursing, medicine and other health fields, I make use of the wonderful global relations I forged and nurtured by connecting mentors and mentees, facilitating connections between experts and those who can benefit from their expertise. I connect those in need of developing certain capacities to those who can meet their needs through my global networks. The vast repertoire of incredibly accomplished colleagues in my life and the relationships I cultivated are assets to those who benefit from shared wisdom and experience. 

  3. The third strategy that led to leadership roles developed from a lesson I learned from my parents, to step outside of my comfort zone and indulge in new roles that require abilities and actions I know little about. I had to develop these uncertain capacities while always finding ways to enjoy and embrace the processes and the outcomes, uncertainties and all.

I have been privileged to get amazing leadership roles that provided me with platforms for my voice. Several instrumental milestones in my career allowed me to gain the necessary skills to lead and to have a voice that made a difference. When Mahmoud finished his Ph.D., I was already an established assistant professor at UCLA, just beginning to develop my academic portfolio, and I had no plans to leave. From his several employment offers, he wanted to accept a position in San Francisco, so we needed to move. I thought I would get a lateral move, from UCLA to UCSF (the UC system has 9 campuses). The dean and faculty at UCSF insisted the only open position I could move to was as an assistant dean. I reluctantly interviewed and got the offer for this difficult new role, particularly for someone like me who just completed my Ph.D. three years earlier, with two babies under 3-years-old, and with a minimal readily available support system for childcare, which was the norm at that time. The challenges of the new administrative role and the challenges of integrating these demands with a growing family taught me a great deal about organization, finding resources, garnering support, management, leadership and the importance of having a strong voice.

Several other events were instrumental in shaping the next 10 years of my life. My academic file went up for a university wide committee review, by what was called pre-tenure by CAP, the Committee for Academic Personnel Promotions and Tenure. This vital milestone predetermined if I would eventually qualify for tenure and stay at the university. After the review, they warned that if I continued working on a book I proposed, for which I had a contract from a top publishing company, and if I stayed in my administrative role, I would definitely fail to attain tenure - an important warning and a Iesson I listened to very carefully. It prompted me to give up the book, resign from my administrative role and re-invest my time in my women’s health research program. It was imperative and timely to put in a request for sabbatical leave, for which I was approved. I chose to go to Kuwait during my sabbatical, to continue with my research program by listening to more women’s stories.

Within a year of returning from sabbatical, with renewed energy for my research program, I was actively pursued and recruited for another administrative role, this time for a deanship in Kuwait. Because of our family goals to provide opportunities for global experiences for our 5 and 7-year-old sons, my husband and I accepted to take leaves of absence from our employers, UCSF and Bechtel Corp., so I could accept this new leadership position – yet another opportunity I did not seek nor prepare for. It turned out to be an instrumental position for cultivating my global voice and gaining more insights into global health and women’s issues. In that new role, I led multinational faculty, developed curricula, dealt with multisector organizations, promoted research agendas, listened to women’s stories of trials and tribulations and resilience and transformation and traveled to some 10 countries in the Middle East and Europe – all packed into a two year deanship appointment. 

When I returned to UCSF, I was adamant about declining every deanship and/or administrative role that came my way, and opted to focus on teaching and research and on having a voice that represented the faculty and the academic mission of our university. I did that through leadership roles with the University of California’s strong Academic Senate. I chaired system-wide academic personnel committees, listened to women faculty and students and became one of the thunderous voices for promoting equity and justice for women faculty and minorities. I testified in front of California legislators about inequity in promotions and financial compensations for women in the University of California system and about the limited resources available to support the multiple demands on their energy and time. I absorbed new skills concerning where and how to exercise my voice, and where and when to ask for policy changes. I also learned a great deal about legislative processes that drive change.   

Another milestone that was serendipitous and contributed to making my scholarly voice more impactful – I created and taught a series of three new theory, philosophy and epistemology courses for Ph.D. students. I was thoroughly invested in and enjoyed these full year courses of learning and teaching. I was settling back in, doing what I love, research and teaching. And one day, a vice president of a top publishing house for health professional education walked into my office and asked me to put those courses in a book, as he heard about my innovative theory/philosophy courses everywhere he went, nationally and internationally. Reluctantly, I agreed and I wrote the textbook, which provided approaches to viewing and studying theories and strategies for developing them by using my unique analyses. The book reflected a very different voice with regard to our discipline, about the theoretical foundation of nursing, and it provided frameworks that considered how nurses make major differences in people’s lives. I honored our discipline’s history in theory development through new approaches to viewing nursing scholarship.

This book, written from a feminist, post colonialist perspective, was used by almost every graduate program, nationally and globally. It provided more visibility for my voice and for the hundreds of journal articles I previously published. It made my ideas more accessible, and interestingly, more accepted and relevant. It expanded my scholarly voice in nursing circles globally and contributed to dialogues and deliberations about nurses as women between international organizations (such as WHO, ICN and the UN).

Another important milestone was the proactive role I played in the only organization, at the time, focused on research and practice in global women’s health issues. I became president of this organization and we held conferences all over the world, which brought clinicians, researchers, policy makers and the public together to dialogue about global women’s health issues. This organization allowed me to develop even more global relationships, investing in multidisciplinary connections with scholars and clinicians and empowering them to influence their governments to devote more attention to women’s health issues, beyond reproductive health. This organization was another platform for my voice.

With dedicated listening to women and nurses’ experiences and global relationships forged through various positions, I developed more leadership skills and increased my ability to take risks by getting out of my comfort zone, allowing me to accept the challenges in formal leadership positions, such as the deanship of The University of Pennsylvania’s School of Nursing. However, one skill I still needed to develop once accepting that position was fundraising for a private university. This was another role/skill falling totally outside of my comfort zone. This deanship position gave me the platform to not only master fundraising, but also to thoroughly embrace and enjoy it.

After reviewing this narrative, I would say the following more accurately describes my leadership trajectory. I have been a lifelong learner and listener and a reluctant adopter of formal leadership roles, who has been privileged to take advantage of and accept many serendipitous positions and opportunities. I definitely lived a life outside of my comfort zones - leaving my home and my family in Alexandria at the age of 20, becoming a citizen of a country I grew to love and immersing myself in a discipline I am proud to be a member of. I hope I made some difference and that I will continue to make an impact, however miniscule it is compared to the needs that exist for insuring justice, equity and valuation for women and nurses.